Marriage.... An event which is a turning point in anyone's life.
It can be understood in various perspectives. These days as people say, wedding has become a business rather than an occassion & thats partially true. Lots of money is put in by both the families to celebrate the union of their son and daughter. I really wonder sometimes that does a mere bonding of two people call for such a grand celebration?
Everyone would have their own views to this.
The prime emotions witnessed in this occassion are excitement, sadness, happiness and wat not.....
Mayit be Love or Arranged, the feeling of leaving your family is unbearable. They say that this becomes smooth with time and it indeed does but that moment of grief and continous fall of tears down the cheeks is inevitable.
This makes me ponder to ponder that if marriage leads to such intense grief... why anyone would like to get married?
One of my colleagues and friends replied to this by saying that i won't understand it now but sooner or later will surely. Well, lets see when that time comes.
There are really beautiful moments when you see your entire family happy, elated, laughing and enjoying....You see your friends teasing, dancing to the punjabi 'dhol' beats, arranging your saris & sherwanis. You see your lovely mother looking at you with such love and care that just writing this statement wetted my eyes. You see your father running all around, checking the arrangements and making sure everything is smooth and sometimes sitting in some corner and gazing at u anonymously.
Marriage is indeed a memorable experience.... It not only affects the ones who are getting married but each one of those who are emotionally involved.
Marriage : A beautiful concoction of love, care, gain, loss, memories......
All the best to those who recently got married and to those as well who are about to.......
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