Saturday, March 22, 2014

marriage... a mere transformation ?????

life s so strange.... this very moment u r happy about all the rituals happening aorund you, abt ur lover sittin in front of u in tht majestic groom's dress.. the other moment, u see urself goin away frm ur best companions (ur parents) , tears comin out frm no where... i guarantee u tht feels terrible...
A gal's lyf s entirely a transformation... frma cute little child to a responsible daughter... frm a papa's darlz to a hubby's jaanu... frm i n me to we n us... n all these transformations although r gradual, sumtyms feel sudden. However hard a guy wud try, he can neva understand how a gal wud feel wen she s goin away .... leavin all her past memories... all her past relations.... n finally goin into an entirely alien life which seems so fascinatin yet unxplored...
and hw suprising s this tht those same parents whom u used to call at even midnites... now think thrice to even make a call to u wen u r at ur in-laws.. thinkin whether this will be correct or nt?
who builds up these weird fomalities? who?
why can't lyf b s d same way.... why dis sudden change s required?
Loving sumbdy is really a BEAUTIFUL feelin bt the real accomplishment s achieved wen u gt married... takin care of all things in tht new place with new faces...
In olden times, princesses used to take their maids along with them to their in laws after marriage. this way they cud feel home. bt now u'll b d only one .... so nervous... so cautious , maintain tht grin on ur face .... all eyes starin at u lyk anythin..... bt ur eyes shud b down.... Ma God !!!!!!
this s no less than a Rodies task....Hats off to all the women out there who crossed this stage of lyf....  you r indeed special..... luv u....

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